A handshake is a part of many social interactions. It’s a way to introduce one’s self, offer congratulations and even a way to conclude a business deal. A handshake is a gesture of goodwill.
The Three-Step Process to Handshake:
- Facial Expression: Start non-verbal’s that show openness and sincerity. Maintain eye contact. Smile.
- Shake Hands: Your handshake gives an impression. If your grip is too lax, you send the message that you’re hesitant and possibly indecisive. If your grip is too tight, you might come across as too brash, even intimidating. Go for a grip that’s in between. It sends the message that you’re confident.
For most occasions, two or three pumps of the hand are appropriate. Longer handshakes can make some people feel uncomfortable. But there are people who do prefer longer handshakes. If uncertain, go with the flow, and follow the lead of the other person. If you feel that it’s time to let go, just relax your hand to signal the other person.
- Greet the Person: Talk to the person whose hand you are shaking. A simple ‘hello’ or ‘how do you do” is appropriate.